KINDNESS IS A TREASURE IN OUR LIFE
Sure, most of families miss the kindness of their kids after growing up and relatives or friends who become so rich. They forget their honest kindest their relatives or old friends.
Surely, the finance world in our life nowadays destroys some of kind relations among the human beings. Some of us become like devices without kind feelings.
Most of the kids forget the kindness and cares of their parents after they grow up. Most of the kids don’t visit their parents after growing up. If they appreciate how their parents donate their age and life to make their kids grow up in a happy life, surely, they will kiss their parents’ hands every day.
High tech affects the relations among the kids and their families nowadays, for example playing games online most of the time. Then we see the kids haven’t any kindness. After growing up, they forget their parent cares.
A study was conducted which included more than 37 cultures of the world and around 16000 subjects were asked to mention the most desirable trait that they wish to see in a mate. Regardless of the gender, the first trait was kindness, and the second preference was given to intelligence.
This is a great topic! I definitely agree that there is a disconnect in this current day and age between children and their parents, betw
een spouses, and even in friendships in general! The social media generation feeds off of the idea of relationship and connection but approaches it through a source that never truly fulfills it. Seeking any kind of connection, or even isolation, through devices is dangerous and I believe that it can only lead to a lack of kindness… After all, how can we be kind if we have such limited interpersonal interaction? How can we, as human beings, expect to feel anything if we only feign connection?
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Thank you so much for your comment.
Unfortunately, although the social media and playing games on internet have some of benefits, but they are so dangerous on our children for this generation and upcoming generations because the internet kills the kindness of the children and also they started not focusing on their studies seriously . What will the families see in future ?
The children will fail in their life and have mental disorders too.
If the families and governments around the world don’t discuss soon together how to protect the children of internet, the children will be destroyed and the global companies earn billions per month.
So, I advise all families to be so clever nowadays without shouting with their children to :-
1- Creating tours out of home with their children.
2–Playing much time with their children in the park or club.
3- Spending lovely time in trips.
4- Showing to their children that the internet is useful in fields but it is also destroying the people who use it wrongly .
5- Showing them how the other children failed in their learning because they don’t focus on studying hard .
I showed some of small steps to the families above , hoping everyone does his/ her best soon to protect their children.
You are welcome in London to enjoy tours and discuss how to collaborate together too.
Best wishes
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I agree, there definitely needs to be a solid form of connection in the family! I firmly believe, though, that teaching our children how form and maintain solid friendships is also an integral part of building connection in family as well!
We need to instill, not only in our children but in our ourselves as well, a firm grasp for the importance of connection! I see a lot of adults talk about how it’s important, how things need to change, and how if we do this or that we could change the world but then they go home and shut themselves in. Their actions do not support their words and they have no foundation to stand on.
Real change is going to require real effort, and real effort requires honesty with ourselves. Stopping to ask ourselves, “What do I value?” or “What are my needs as an individual, as a husband, and/or as a father (for those who have children)?” and really narrowing down what our core values are, then acting on them.
There is a LOT that can be said in regards to this, so many conversational tidbits that be thrown in, facts and statistics that can be given, but in the end it is going to come down to honesty and genuine effort; not apart from our words but in tandem with them.
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Thank you so much for following my posts well.
Really, I enjoy your comments.
Just, I want to show to you simple information .
The human beings are many types.
There are positive and negative ….so on.
The positive people struggle to achieve what they plan, dream, but the negative people maybe run away or sleep after drinking or be silent and focus on eating , drinks and sex.
So, we need to be aware of those well in order to live safe , happy and successful.
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I doubt anyone but a psychopath lacks kindness … these kids you mention lack thoughtfulness!
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THANK YOU FOR YOUR COMMENT.
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This truly is a problem of technocratic proportions and can be solved through simple means. We need to step from behind the shield of the screen and show gratitude for the kindness we are afforded in real life. We can do this not the by giving a simplistic thumbs up to Indonesia’s holiday pictures but by looking a person in their eye, and seeing them for who they are, despite their slight imperfections. Thank you for this reminder.
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Wow what a great thought, all to often ego can step in an over rule a persons being. I strive for kindness even when kindness is not shown to me. Great article!
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